Is it okay to feel sexy?
For some time ago my self confidence was low and I believed that every woman was more beautiful than me. I was comparing myself to every one of them forgetting to look at myself in the mirror and see my own beauty. I am a Latina and my body structure is quite different from European body structure and I must say that we Latinas have gotten more on our hips and the butt.
Before I came to Norway I did not have any problem with my self confidence since almost every one looked like me. However, when I came to Norway I felt that every woman looked like a barbie doll with long beautiful legs and I was so jealous haha.
The real reason for why I lost my self confidence was that I was going through some difficulties that really hurt me that I might tell you about one day in the future but for now I don’t want to delve into the old scars. It’s very common to lose confidence when you are going through rough times and sometimes it can be hard to come back as strong as you were before it happened. It took me approximately 6 years to come back to where I am today and finally allowing myself to feel sexy again.
I would never have managed to do this on my own and there are some actions that are necessary for you to take in order to succeed such process. There are some people that you have to get rid off in your life because they are not good for you. It was hard since it was scaring to leave my so called friend but it was better to be alone than staying in the bad company that I was in. Luckily, I managed to get new friends that helped me through the most difficult time in my life and I’m so grateful for them.
What about you? Do you allow yourself to feel sexy or are you letting yourself being dragged down by comparing yourself to other women? Every single woman has one kind of beauty and it is important to accept your beauty and recognise it. I was dreaming about having long thin legs but that is not possible for me and therefor I have to appreciate having nice shapes which other women might be jealous of me at again. You see, there is always something that you don’t like about yourself that another women is dying to have.
I want you to start seeing yourself as unique and there is no one exactly like you. You are beautiful, fabulous, strong and remember that you have the power.
Let’s take sexy back!