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How I met my boyfriend

February 26, 2017

Love is something that is very difficult to understand sometimes and we never now when love is knocking on our door. For 10 years ago I got separated with my ex-husband and then my plan was to head back to Brazil again but this never happened because I met someone else that really did not work out and I got very hurt by this relationship. However, he gave something beautiful though which is my youngest daughter. After the breakup I believed that I would never ever be able to trust a man again and this sorrow continued for many years actually because the damages would not heal.

When I left outside I was cold as a stone and whenever a man approached me I just left because I was terrified of men. The time was my best friend and helped me to recover step by step and I felt ready to start dating again and then I met my ex-boyfriend which is the one before I met my current boyfriend. Actually I was looking for safety and hoped that I would be able to learn to love a guy that obviously loved me. I thought safety first and did not think so much about attractions. During this time I was struggling a lot in my life where I had a crisis in my life and this guy really helped me a lot which I am thankful for today. I realised that he was really in love with me and started be afraid of hurting him as I was hurt and I did not want anyone to go through the same pain as I did. That is why I started to consider whether this relationship was good and if I should end it before he fell even more in love but the problem was that I did not know how to do so.

In this process I also went to a church. I am christian by the way. It was a lovely church with many nice and wonderful people that really enriched me life. Another problem with the relationship that I was in was that he was not a believer which complicated our relationship since I wanted to go to church and he did not want to participate. This was autumn in Aalesund and the semester was about to start at the university in the city. What I did not know was that a new guy had moved to town in order to study economics and he was also a christian and therefor visited our church. I remember it as it was yesterday because he gave me a look like he knew me. Now I am going to reveal why such look and that is why he went to the church Facebook page and looked at the people attending the church and he has revealed that he had a special plan to come this very Sunday and that was to get to know me.

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Soon after the ceremony was done he approached me and we talked a little bit. He flirted very hard with me but since I was in a relationship I tried to back off a little bit even though I liked him. I charmed me with his fluent spanish and he was very nice dressed like a real business man haha. The following week I met him on my buss stop and I was shocked to meet him there and he told me that he was living close to my house and we were neighbours. He was really tired that morning and he did not noticed how I stared at him in the buss and I could not take my eyes off him. That very day I went to my ex-boyfriend and we broke up. The weekend after I invited him to an event that was going to take place in Aalesund but we misunderstood one another since I meant Saturday and he went on a Friday. He called me afterwards and I explained and invited him for some glasses of wine at my place. We talked for hours and laughed and I have to confess that there was something special about this guy.

Things went very fast but neither one of us was ready for a relationship. I still carried some pain from the past while he had a complicating thing going on with an Argentinian woman ย that he was dating in Bergen where he lived before moving to Aalesund. His parents were also going through a divorce which made him not believing in love and did not have any plan of going into a relationship. This was actually one of the reasons why it did not work out with the other latina. However, even though we did not classify ourself in a relationship we spent every day together and we were sort of friends with benefits.

After doing this for a while we both recognised that there was something stronger than just fooling around and he invited me to his family for the Christmas. I was not completely uncomplicated for me since he is 4,5 years younger than me which was hard for me to accept. We spent some lovely days with his family and went back to Aalesund after New Years Eve. When the semester ended he wanted to move back to his county to be closer to his family and friends. I did not want to do the same and was a bit glad in the beginning because then I could finally meet some guy at my age but the feelings was stronger than my brain and I ended up moving to his county.

Making a long history a little bit shorter I can say that we are now living together in Stavanger and our relationship is stronger than ever before. I am getting more and more in love with him every day. We have had my ups and downs but I believe that starting out as friends made our relationship even stronger and we know each other very well. I love him so much and I cannot think living my life without him.

Now you know how I met my boyfriend and this is our love history. ๐Ÿ™‚

 

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38 Comments

  • Reply pawan35 August 9, 2016 at 4:08 pm

    Love at its best…. Love been showered by both….. Be blessed with smiles and happiness always…. May Source shower love on You, him and your kids…… May the charm You have because of love be present always… ‘Amen’

  • Reply Simon August 9, 2016 at 4:14 pm

    That’s a wonderful story! ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Reply Roberta Pimentel February 26, 2017 at 12:49 am

      Thank you Simon <3
      Hugs xx

  • Reply Rick Amitin August 9, 2016 at 4:14 pm

    The magic of love is in the cards for everyone of us. We oftentimes have to get rid of the jokers to play with the actual cards. Sincerely happy for you.

  • Reply sraddhavakkalagadda August 9, 2016 at 4:31 pm

    That’s a story which is imperfectly perfect in it’s own way and that’s how love stories are! Here’s hoping you guys stay in love with each other for a life time. Great ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Reply alvarezgalloso August 9, 2016 at 5:03 pm

    I am happy for you. Your story serves ad encouragement to those who are not aware when they are in love to follow their feelings in a good sense.

  • Reply kacy August 9, 2016 at 5:43 pm

    hi Roberta! i had to say this… you are a wonderful person! in spite of what all you went through in your past, you still said sweet things about the men in your past, preserved some respect! I’ m happy for you that you finally met someone who treasures you ๐Ÿ™‚ wish you both all the happiness there is in the world ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Reply Roberta Pimentel February 26, 2017 at 12:50 am

      Thank you so much Kacy! Appreciate <3

  • Reply calexandra August 9, 2016 at 7:28 pm

    Love it!! I love romance stories!

  • Reply vinis2blog August 9, 2016 at 7:55 pm

    This is lovely! Happy to know your in love again ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Reply Barron August 9, 2016 at 9:08 pm

    Wonderful!

  • Reply Jenn Moss August 10, 2016 at 3:51 am

    Lovely story! Glad you didn’t let the past hold you back. (And I bet those 4-5 years difference will seem less and less important as time goes on.)

  • Reply Listepedia [Top10 lists] August 10, 2016 at 9:56 am

    This is awesome. Am inspired

  • Reply Rajiv August 10, 2016 at 2:45 pm

    Nice one

  • Reply taylorcain94 September 21, 2016 at 5:23 am

    I love yhis

    • Reply Roberta Pimentel February 26, 2017 at 12:47 am

      Thanks Taylor ๐Ÿ™‚
      Hugs xx

  • Reply LemasLife September 21, 2016 at 10:06 pm

    Wonderful love story โ™ก

  • Reply watermark17 September 22, 2016 at 12:35 am

    What a beautiful story. It sounds like you bring out the best in each other <3

  • Reply jmsabbagh September 22, 2016 at 1:10 am

    Loves ‘s crown is trust and openness.

  • Reply z3ng33kgr7 September 22, 2016 at 2:03 am

    Love goals…

  • Reply Sudhir Chauhan September 22, 2016 at 6:00 am

    you both look amazing…. god bless…..

  • Reply watchingthedaisies September 22, 2016 at 12:13 pm

    Glad you met a good man who shares your values.

    • Reply Roberta Pimentel February 26, 2017 at 12:46 am

      Thank you dear!
      Hugs xx

  • Reply girlandworld September 22, 2016 at 4:21 pm

    Beautiful love story

  • Reply spardha.k September 22, 2016 at 8:08 pm

    Nothing is more beautiful than being in love and realising the fact that the person will be by your side forever..
    It feels really great to hear that someone’s happy story specially after a tough time..It encourages ppl to believe in love and relationships..
    God bless you both and may the 2 of you be together forever.๐Ÿ˜Š

    • Reply Roberta Pimentel February 26, 2017 at 12:45 am

      Love is wonderful when you meet the right one ๐Ÿ˜‰
      Thanks for reading!

  • Reply edenofknowledge September 22, 2016 at 8:09 pm

    Tough times toughen us up and teach us lessons. May you both be blessed with happiness.

    • Reply Roberta Pimentel February 26, 2017 at 12:44 am

      Thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Reply scintillatingmemoirs September 22, 2016 at 9:59 pm

    How love works huh!!
    This is so magical – all the love and luck to you both! ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Reply Roberta Pimentel February 26, 2017 at 12:44 am

      Yeah, ๐Ÿ™‚
      Thank you dear! <3
      Cheers!

  • Reply D'Dream September 22, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    Beautiful love story! Thanks for sharing this aspect of your life with us

    • Reply Roberta Pimentel February 26, 2017 at 12:43 am

      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Reply Sneha_Mishra October 7, 2016 at 7:57 pm

    You both are made 4 each other….๐Ÿ˜Š

  • Reply Angeloftheshore February 26, 2017 at 12:56 am

    ๐Ÿ’—

  • Reply katjmn February 26, 2017 at 7:11 am

    It’s a wonderful and amazing love story. I hope i’ll have also to write a good story too when i get older ๐Ÿ™‚ Keep your relationship stronger. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Reply Uttley February 26, 2017 at 5:54 pm

    Great post. He is a lucky man.

  • Reply Let's CUT the Crap! February 26, 2017 at 6:50 pm

    I love your story and you make a wonderful couple. <3 <3 <3

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