There are written many songs about apology and it is an action that can be hard for humans to take. There are many reasons why but one of the most common reasons is proud where we don’t like to admit that we were wrong. Relationships can easily get destroyed when the parts don’t want to swallow their pride and ask for forgiveness in order to fix the issue and it is such a pity I think. Why risk ruing good friendships, relationships and marriages just because of something that should be so easy to do. Just say sorry.
Well, I know that it is not that easy and me and my boyfriend we have had some argues where we both have been proud and where the argues have escalated since we both were proud and said things that we really did not mean. When we are friends again we always ask one another why we waited that long and why we couldn’t just say sorry right in the beginning. This is an area that we work a lot on to improve in our relationship since it will save us so much energy and make the harmony in the relationship much better.
I think that we have improved a lot and our argues doesn’t tend to escalate now since we have learned to swallow our pride, talk about the issue and apologise right afterwards. It has helped our relationship and the communication has improved as well. Every human being makes mistakes and it is just silly to try to act perfect and neglect to admit mistakes. This mindset helps both me and my boyfriend in our relationship but also in the relationship with others.