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How I came to Norway

October 13, 2016

I grew up in Brazil and I never thought that I was going to move from Brazil. However, in 2003 I met my ex husband in Brazil and we fell in love which resulted in a marriage in 2004. We lived in Brazil for 6 months since I had a daughter of 6 years old. In the beginning It was difficult for me to just leave my family and friends but after 6 months we realised that my daughter would have a better future in Norway so we decided to move to Norway.

We moved to Norway in December in 2004. In the beginning it was a bit hard to integrate into the Norwegian society and I felt a bit lonely sometimes because me ex husband was working offshore and I did not know the language and did not have any friends here.

He is a really good man and he did a lot of good things for me and my daughter but we got married too soon and we did not know each other good enough. After a while we encountered some difficulties in our marriage and decided that it was the best to get a divorce and that we were better off as friends.

I could have decided to move back to Brazil again but I stayed in Norway because of my daughter. Today my daughter is studying for ambulance driver and she wants to become a nurse in the long run.

Now you know how I came to Norway. Today I feel really integrated into the Norwegian society and I have accepted Norwegian citizenship along with my Brazilian citizenship. Even though it didn’t work out with me and my ex husband I really thank him for having brought me to Norway.


Me and my  daughters on holiday 2009 in Turkey H2O

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  • Reply Amitav Chowdhury August 1, 2016 at 4:04 pm

    Thank you for sharing your journey to Norway. My best wishes for you, always. 🙂

  • Reply alvarezgalloso August 1, 2016 at 4:07 pm

    Thanks for sharing.

  • Reply dianaed2013 August 1, 2016 at 8:23 pm

    Always good to have challenges whatever they are

  • Reply dianaed2013 August 1, 2016 at 8:24 pm

    And i is such a lovely country

  • Reply gunnardeckare August 1, 2016 at 9:20 pm

    I think Norway is a good country for a child to grow up in. Maybe you can travel with her to Brazil some time. I guess there’s a lot to see there.

  • Reply Kim Knight_Author (Romance/Suspense & Crime Fiction Writer) August 2, 2016 at 12:52 am

    Wow I just done the maths,you had her very young if you are just 35 now. Good for you for remaining in Norway with a small child so young yourself, I’m sure one day she will look at her mother and realise what it means to be a strong women.

  • Reply arv! August 2, 2016 at 2:25 am

    It’s really interesting to read your story. wishing you all good luck.

  • Reply Grandtrines August 2, 2016 at 9:19 am

    Reblogged this on Still Another Writer's Blog.

  • Reply muffincatblog August 6, 2016 at 9:29 am

    You hardly look old enough to have a daughter her age. I appreciate you sharing. My blog is themed and part parody so I don’t use it as a platform for sharing personal data but maybe will eventually. I realize how nice it is for the reader to “know” the writer.

  • Reply Esther October 13, 2016 at 12:09 am

    Hi Roberta… You and your daughter are pretty!

  • Reply michnavs October 13, 2016 at 12:24 am

    I am happy to have read such a beautiful and positive post early this morning…its 5 am from where i am..

  • Reply O'Shine ORIGINAL October 13, 2016 at 12:45 am

    . . . Mixed blessings.

  • Reply Jim October 13, 2016 at 1:04 am

    another interesting blog post from Miss Roberta. nice post.

  • Reply equinoxio21 October 13, 2016 at 1:50 am

    Bacano. Nao tem saudades do Brazil? 😉

  • Reply amommasview October 13, 2016 at 3:03 am

    You left a beautiful country to move to a beautiful country. Are you visiting at all? I was in a relationship with a Swiss-Brazilian living in Sao Paulo for almost 5 years many years ago and spent a lot of time in Brazil. I was close to move to Brazil at one point but then we realized that we were not meant for each other…

  • Reply leggypeggy October 13, 2016 at 3:31 am

    So nice to know more about you.

  • Reply Dheeraj Dave October 13, 2016 at 3:58 am

    Great journey…god bless you…beautiful pictures…😊

  • Reply Sonali@foodtravelandmakeup October 13, 2016 at 4:17 am

    All the very best …you have a lovely daughter..

  • Reply Selina Stambi October 13, 2016 at 6:01 am

    Pretty ladies – mum and her girl. 🙂

  • Reply Jolene October 13, 2016 at 10:23 am

    Loved my trip to Norway earlier this year! A beautiful place to raise a family – wish you all the best☺️

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